My job
Mr Bob has left Boston. His body is still hanging around, schlepping off to work and going for dinner with Bob, but his thoughts, his heart, his plans, his dreams have completly left the city.
He is in his new assistant professor job. Conversations revolve around:
a) The floor plans he has been faxed and him mistaking GB for girls bathroom and trying to figure out where to put his glove box.
b) How to get good students.
c) His research.
d) His new co-workers (with whom he is in email contact.
e) Our new house
Now Mr Bob has not accepted the postion, nor has he recieved the formal, formal offer. Also, there is the Bob needing a job factor. Mr Bob is still interviewing (current count 18 applications sent out, 3 interviews, 2 PFO letters) but in all real ways he is completely gone to his new job.
I'm a bit different. Unlike Mr Bob, I love my post doc (Mr Bob recognised his as good for him, but didn't enjoy it). My supervisor is almost entirely absent, which lets me take much more responsibility than most post docs get to. I discuss research, edit thesis, edit papers, direct experiments, edit talks and coerced everyone into having once a week meetings to discuss research in a formal manner (boss does not attend). Even with a boss I would do a lot of this, but I am more of a last stop/final authority than I would be otherwise.
This is a great lab group. I've had good discussions with everyone (except evil woman) and have a couple friends out of it. The only problem is my own research suffers somewhat, but I'm really enjoying myself. It's kinda like a prof job, but without the stress of being REALLY responsible.
My teaching is so much fun (also a time suck). I swear I'm teaching the nerdiest, smartest kids in the world.
I am really going to miss this place when we leave.
As a minor, minor possibility, Mr Bob has actually applied to my school (though not his own). No word yet from them, but if he interviewed and if he were offered a position, I could stay in my current position. That would be a really tough choice for me. However, that is a distant, distant possibility, so I won't worry about that.

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*dances around*
So am I sending cookies to Mr. Bob's body or his brain?
Seriously, I am so torn between happy for Mr. Bob and feeling alternately hopeful and wistful for you.
Maybe you need the cookies.
Ah, the joy of juggling balloons while playing musical chairs. Hopefully it will all work out in the end and you'll both be sitting in nice chairs and holding intact balloons.
Be happy! There are many fields where good jobs are more rumor than reality.
I know you won't say which city for fear of berserk bloggers storming chemistry departments or something, but will you at least tell us which country? Please?
Things will work out however they are supposed to and I'm sure you'll both be very happy with whatever decision you make.
Good luck! Keep us posted.
The offer for Mr Bob is in Canada and Swami's right, due to blurkers and random searches, I'm leaving it at that.
Coco can send cookies to Bob. Bob will hide them from Mr Bob because Mr Bob is a cookie hoover.
In fact Mr Bob has eaten all the chocolate chips Bob bought to make cookies with. I guess it's more efficient this way.
We don't have a house either, but we email each other houses we find online. We are both looking forward to actually owning a place.
I'm sorry Bob I deleted my original post because of a location mentioned. I did not realize it!
But really c'mon what about the penguin with the coffee cup?
How exciting, I think. He is working but is not officially hired? Is that what I understand?
No prob Zombs. I mentioned places earlier, but on reflection (and with that nasty anonomous running around) decided not to.
And Boo, Mr Bob is still officially working as a post doc. He just doesn't care about it as much as he did 2 months ago.
edit to add: Any prof jobs won't start until next summer.
*smooches Bob*
I agree with coco...I'm incredibly happy that Mr. Bob is so excited. However, I understand how it makes you feel a little sad and pressured.
*hugs*
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